This day. Mother’s Day. I find it so interesting how we celebrate this day. We want our kids to celebrate us but that USUALLY means our husbands helping our kids celebrate us. Our husbands have the opportunity to express what they see as the mother of their children, while also encouraging and even challenging their kids to see the beauty of a mother’s responsibilities in daily life. It’s an opportunity to teach gratitude for the unspoken expectations of being a mother. Then, we have adult mothers who still have mother’s of their own. They want to love their mom’s on this day and celebrate them in a whole new light. This is an opportunity for the mom to show her kids how she celebrates her own mom. So without lessening the value of this day for Mother’s, I want to suggest the idea that Mother’s day is more about marriages, kids, and family.
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Read MoreEvery day, love looks different and it is absolutely a CHOICE. These two girls will not naturally love me, they will develop love for me. Same with me loving them. Anytime I want to believe that I am not capable of being a mom because I did not birth my girls, I am reminded that when they say they love me, they have chosen it. They have knocked down a wall in their heart to let me in. They didn’t have to. The world actually tells them NOT to love me as a stepmom. Yet, we have overcome and we are full of love.
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